女权主义者的性欲观,读书笔记

作者:中医养生

女权主义者的性欲观(读书笔记:杰茜卡瓦伦蒂:《正面全裸的女权主义》)作者一向感觉,女权主义者都以些身穿男性西装剪着老头子发型叼着烟卷不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。未来才晓得过来,原本女权主义者也会有七情六欲的!不止如此,她们的欲望比平常女子更直接,越来越强势,更自私。瓦伦蒂用了总体二个章节来阐释女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更擅长干那件事(以及另外关于性的提醒)FEMINISTS DO IT BETTE智跑 (AND OTHE奥迪Q7 SEX TIPS)》。她直抒胸意就自己绚烂“作者在床的上面比你行,而那得归功于女权主义。”(I'm better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for it.)今世父权社会对女子有一种自相争论的双重标准:一方面,女子在大庭广众领受“守贞教育”,中午则在电视上看见“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被教育说婚前性行为是颠三倒四的,另一方面又告诉您,你若想形成一名春假辣妹,你飞快对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When you're getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone Wild commercials at night, it's not exactly easy to develop a healthy sexuality. You're taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you'd better start making out for the camera.)守贞教育家是那般来教育女子的:“你们的躯干正是一根棒棒糖。当你们与先生发生性关系时,他剥去你的门面,含吮起来。那时候大概觉获得没有错,可缺憾的是,他与你完事后,你们留给下一人伴侣的正是衣冠不整,口水臭味的残余。”("Your body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but unfortunately, when he's done with you, all you have left for your next partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker. ")够耸人据书上说的。不过女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂提议的口号是:“小编的处女膜作者做主!(Our Hymens, Ourselves )”她说:“小编一向不闹精晓处女贞操有哪些大不断,真的。笔者的贞节在中学时代就被一名男友没怎么费事就夺去了。大家后来还约会了好几年呢。作者还以为会有啥异样的感到吧,未有。笔者总认为这种把处女贞操当成如花似玉三回事很迟钝。所以你能够设想,当自家开掘自个儿原本是被用过即弃的污物时有多愕然。”(I have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity. Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel different—I didn't. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was just a used-up piece of trash without it.)小编比较纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是瞧不起男生的。不过在拍卖自身的性欲时,她们对汉子的势态明朗又是另一番风景。诚然,她们与相恋的人上床,再亦不是为了取悦老公,更不是为着后继有人,而纯粹是为着自身的欢乐。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,正是:一边做女权主义者,一边滚床单!(f***ing while feminist !)只是,面临一个人性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪一人小男士消受得起?

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自个儿直接感到,女权主义者都以些身穿男子西装剪着相恋的人发型叼着香烟不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。

明日才知道过来,原本女权主义者也可以有七情六欲的!不唯有如此,她们的欲念比日常女人更直白,更加强势,更自私。

瓦伦蒂用了总体一个章节来演讲女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更加长于干那件事(以及任何关于性的唤起)FEMINISTS DO IT BETTEGL450 (AND OTHECRUISER SEX TIPS)》。

他直言不讳就自身炫丽“我在床面上比你行,而那得归功于女权主义。”(I'm better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for it.)

当代父权社会对妇女有一种自相冲突的双重标准:一方面,女生在公开场地领受“守贞教育”,上午则在电视机上收看“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被教育说婚前性行为是颠三倒四的,另一方面又告诉你,你若想产生一名春假辣妹,你急速对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When you're getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone Wild commercials at night, it's not exactly easy to develop a healthy sexuality. You're taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you'd better start making out for the camera.)

守贞国学家是那般来教育女子的:“你们的肉体就是一根棒棒糖。当你们与丈夫发生性关系时,他剥去你的外衣,含吮起来。那时可能感到没有错,可可惜的是,他与您完事后,你们留给下壹人伴侣的正是衣冠不整,口水臭味的糟粕。”("Your body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but unfortunately, when he's done with you, all you have left for your next partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker. ")

够耸人据说的。可是女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂建议的口号是:“笔者的处女膜笔者做主!(Our Hymens, Ourselves )

”她说:“小编并未有闹精晓处女贞操有何大不断,真的。小编的贞操在中学时期就被一名男友没怎么费力就夺去了。我们后来还约会了几许年呢。小编还以为会有如何分外的认为吧,未有。作者总认为这种把处女贞操当成如花似玉二回事很笨拙。所以你能够想像,当本身开采本身原本是被用过即弃的废物(或棒棒糖)时有多愕然。”(I have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity. Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel different—I didn't. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was just a used-up piece of trash (or candy) without it.)

作者相比纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是轻渎男子的。然则在拍卖本身的情欲时,她们对男生的情态明朗又是另一番风光。诚然,她们与孩子他爸上床,再亦非为了投其所好娃他爹,更不是为着后继有人,而纯粹是为着本人的惊奇。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,就是:一边做女权主义者,一边交欢!(Fucking while feminist !)

只是,面前蒙受一位性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪一人小男子消受得起?

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